How to choose the best jewellery gift for a best friend
Buying for a bestie? Here’s how to choose the perfect jewellery gift for your best friend
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You’d like to buy her something she’ll absolutely love – jewellery that won’t end up gathering dust on her dressing table. And that can be harder than it sounds! You probably already have a good idea of what your best friend likes, but we hope these tips will help you really lift the lid on her taste, personality and style.
Here’s how to nail it when picking out the ultimate jewellery piece for your best friend.
Be a detective: find out what she said she wants
When it comes to best friends, there’s usually lots of lively chats about what they’re wanting or needing. Think back to shopping together, or a moment when she admired someone else’s jewellery. One way to select the perfect jewellery gift for a friend is to go through your shared messages and chats. Do a search for words like “jewellery”, “ring”, “necklace”, or “I want” or “I need”.
Ok, so this activity might make you feel more like a stalker than a detective! But it’s an amazing way to explore what your best friend wants. It’ll also be a fun trip down memory lane, which might inspire your gift choice in a different way. More on that later.
Personal style: what kind of jewellery does she wear?
Take a closer look at the jewellery your bestie likes. What metals does she wear – classic silver, the glow of gold, the blush-tint of rose gold? Or maybe she’s into rhodium or platinum jewellery, these are brighter metals and can be really eye-catching. That’s also worth considering, does she go for bling or a bohemian look?
Then there’s the question of delicate or chunky jewellery. Some people like to mix it up, but most people tend to choose one or the other. Whether it’s a statement ring (think about what stones she likes too!) or a necklace with a chain as delicate as a spider’s web… which jewellery look does your best friend like to wear?
Quick tip: size it up. Resizing is expensive, so if you can, find a way to secretly check the size of a ring she already owns. Also, ensure it’s the finger you’re planning to buy a ring for, different fingers may be different sizes. If you’re not sure, use a piece of string cut to the size of her ring, then you can measure it later. The most common women’s ring sizes are 16.5 mm, 16.9 mm, and 17.3 mm. In the UK, Australia and New Zealand, these sizes are M, N and O.
A day in a life: what are your best friend’s passions and lifestyle?
Now that you’ve considered your best friend’s style aesthetic, what about her lifestyle and hobbies? Jewellery with motifs like leaves, animals or the ocean might be perfect for a friend who loves being out in nature – and quality 100% waterproof jewellery is a must for the really outdoors types!
“When” she’ll wear the jewellery is important too. Is your best friend someone who wears jewellery every day, or does she enjoy statement pieces for special occasions? Interesting or unique jewellery designs make a great conversation starter at events, or for people who work in retail. While other people might have the kind of active job that means they need to avoid long necklaces or dangly earrings. Thinking about your friend’s lifestyle is a practical way to make sure she’ll love and wear your gift.
Give it meaning: Tell the story of your friendship
Gifts are a form of communication. When you think about the message behind your gift, it becomes especially meaningful and powerful. What’s the story of your friendship – did you meet at school, uni, work, or while you were travelling?
Friendships often had strange or hilarious events that started them off! And best friends always have moments and places when you had the most fun of your lives, or supported each other through a difficult time. These are exactly the kinds of shared memories you can capture with a jewellery gift.
Whether you’re buying a birthday present, going away gift, good luck charm, or thank you gift, the occasion you’re buying for matters too. Her birthstone or sign of the Zodiac pendant is a fun and simple gift idea for a birthday. Or maybe it’s another gift occasion – travel, graduation, new job, new baby – you can give some thought to what jewellery might represent her new life phase.
There are so many amazing jewellery designs that can capture your shared relationship. Close your eyes and remember… How will you tell your best friend’s story?
We hope these ideas have inspired you to find the very best jewellery gift for your very best friend!
Love from the team at ASTRA
ASTRA is a New Zealand company dedicated to making jewellery that tells personalised stories about the milestones and moments of our lives.
Readers responses
I loved what you mentioned about finding a jewelry gift that includes your friend’s birthstone or Zodiac sign. My best friend’s birthday party is in a few weeks, and I’d like to get her a jewelry set to show how much I care about her, so I believe your guide will help me find it in time. I appreciate your advice on how to find the perfect jewelry gift that captures shared memories.